Valentine’s Prayers for My Children

True LoveI believe in the power of what I call “Valentine’s Prayers” for each of my children.  Praying they would one day find their lifetime Valentine just like I found mine thirty-five years ago!

From the day my children were born, I began praying for their future spouses.  Some may call it odd to be praying for two boys and one girl, whom I had never met, nor would likely meet until my two daughters and my son introduced the “love of their life” to me for the first time.  The thing is, if I believe that God has mapped out a plan for my three children and if it is His purpose to see them married, I believe He has also chosen a perfect spouse for each of them.

I know that we live in a culture where there seems to be a tension between what God’s plan is and our “choices” and I will admit that when my kids started bringing home their friends and I met prospective “dates”, I wasn’t sure if God’s plan and their choice meshed.  Still, I prayed that if God was directing their steps, He would also eventually lead them to the “right” one.

By God’s design, when my oldest daughter was in university, she started dating a six-foot seven young man who had (and still has) the healthiest appetite we had ever seen.  He was not a Christian and that concerned me greatly.  I questioned God’s plan and wondered why my prayer for a Godly spouse for her seemed to go awry.  I needn’t have feared…

My daughter knew she could not continue a relationship with a non-Christian and urged him to attend Alpha classes with her and weeks later he accepted the Lord.  In their ten years of marriage, my tall son-in-law has attended seminary and attained a Bachelor of Christian Ministry and is serving the Lord as a Biblical Counsellor.  My daughter and he are Godly parents to my two grandbabies and I praise God for the boy I prayed for when my daughter was only days old.

My son, started attending a Christian school in Grade eight and a few days later I was introduced to his new friend, a sweet girl with a wide smile and a mouth full of braces.  Their friendship grew through high school and into university and we praise God that we will be blessed to welcome a new daughter-in-law into our family on August 10th, 2014.  She is a girl who loves God with all her heart, mind, soul and strength and she loves my son.  She is the answer to my prayers for my son while I rocked him in my arms as a baby.

My youngest daughter has been dating a young man for the past year.  He has a warm smile, a hearty laugh and treats our girl with respect.  He is showing some interest in learning about God, and I pray one day he will place his full trust and faith in Him.   It is, after all, a prayer I have prayed for each of my children from the time they were infants, for all their friends, and for their future spouses.  I have no doubt if my daughter is allowing God to direct her steps (Proverbs 16:9), my Valentine’s Prayers for her will also be answered!

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25 Encouraging Bible Verses for Winners and Losers

sf_runtherace_01Now don’t get upset by the title!  I’m not saying anybody is a “loser”, I’m just saying that there are times in our life when we know what it feels like to “win” and times when we know what it feels like to “lose”.  I was never much of an athlete growing up but I tried my best, even if my efforts seldom resulted in a ribbon.  Watching athletic events, like the Olympics or football or hockey, there are winning teams, those who hoist the cup, and the losing teams, those who don’t get on the podium.  There cannot be a winning team without a team who must lose to them.  Not everyone can win Gold in the Olympics, but we applaud all of those who made the attempt!  Ecclesiastes 3 reminds us that there is “a time for everything”.  There is a time to win and a time to lose, but focus on the Lord and you will triumph in the effort!

1 Corinthians 9:24-27  “Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.  Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever.  Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air.  No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.”

Deuteronomy 31:6  “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Colossians 3:23-24  “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters,  since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

2 Samuel 23:12  “But Shammah took his stand in the middle of the field. He defended it and struck the Philistines down, and the Lord brought about a great victory.”

Isaiah 40:31  “but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

Matthew 19:26  “Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

2 Timothy 2:5  “Similarly, anyone who competes as an athlete does not receive the victor’s crown except by competing according to the rules.”

1 Timothy 4:7-8  “Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.”

Hebrews 12:1  “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.”

Philippians 4:13  “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

Psalm 37:23-24  “The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him;  though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand.”

Hebrews 12:11-13  “ No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.   Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees.  “Make level paths for your feet,” so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed.”

Psalm 18:32-34  “It is God who arms me with strength and keeps my way secure.  He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he causes me to stand on the heights.  He trains my hands for battle; my arms can bend a bow of bronze.”

1 Peter 1:13-16  “Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming. As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.”

Ecclesiastes 3:9-13  “What do workers gain from their toil? I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.”

1 Corinthians 6:19-20  “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”

Philippians 2:3  “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

1 Timothy 6:10-12  “ For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.  But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses.”

Psalm 139:23-24  “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.  See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”

Mark 8:34-38  “Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.  For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? If anyone is ashamed of me and my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his Father’s glory with the holy angels.”

Philippians 3:12-14  “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.  Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

Galatians 6:9  “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

James 1:12  “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.”

Ecclesiastes 9:10  “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.”

Psalm 35:9  “Then my soul will rejoice in the Lord and delight in his salvation.”

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Olympic Fever

hidy-and-howdyI suppose it started for me when Calgary hosted the Winter Olympics in 1988.  There is something about having your home town play host to one of the greatest sporting events in history.  The atmosphere, the camaraderie, the excitement and of course, the national pride surpassed anything we had ever experienced before…and that even includes the Stampeders winning the Grey Cup or the Calgary Flames winning the Stanley Cup…although that 1989 Cup win for the Flames was pretty sweet 🙂

I was teaching preschool in 1988 and my daughter was only four years old.  The Olympic Flame came through our community and my husband and I got to run with the flame, our four year old holding my hand as we ran.  It is a memory I will always cherish.

My husband had been competing in two-men bobsled leading up to the Olympics.  Although his bobsled career was relatively short-lived, watching him go down the new bobsled track prior to the Olympics made me very proud of my would-be “Olympian”.

We had managed to get a couple of tickets to the Ice Dancing competition and riding the LRT (light rapid transit) into Calgary that day was an experience all in itself.  My daughter was in her stroller and a young man with a wide smile spoke to her while she waved and pointed at his pin-adorned lapel.  His accent was pronounced but I managed to discover from his broken English that he was one of the goalies for the West German hockey team.  He had spent the morning exploring the city and was now on his way back to the Olympic Village.  As we were about to step off the LRT to take the short walk to the Saddledome to cheer on the Canadian duo, Tracy Wilson and RobManley, Elizabeth McCall skate in the preliminary competition en route to their Bronze Medal win, our new German Goalie friend gallantly helped me negotiate the bulky stroller out of the train.  Then he quickly pulled off a pin from his lapel and gave it to me before he jumped back on the train and waved “good-bye”, his wide smile beaming at us as we waved back.  That gift of a lapel pin started my Olympic Pin collection I have to this day!  When Canada played the West Germans later that week in hockey, although my heart was with Team Canada, I cheered loudly whenever the German Goalie made a save.  Canada won 8 – 1, and I couldn’t help feeling a little sad for my goalie friend from Germany.

I love to watch the opening and closing ceremonies of the Olympics where ever they are held. The culture of the host country and city is always showcased so beautifully each time.  Each year the Olympics are held, I immediately find myself reminiscing about our Olympic experiences in 1988.  How my daughter hugged on Hidy and Howdy, the Calgary Olympic mascots, as they greeted us at the Saddledome the day we met our German goalie friend.   Cheering on Eddie the Eagle, the British ski jumper who crashed more than sailed through the skies but became a “legend” Eddie the Eaglenonetheless.  The debut of the Jamaican Bobsled team who came in dead last in the four man event, but came in first in the hearts of all Calgarians and the rest of the world.  Watching little Elizabeth Manley win silver in Figure Skating and cheering on the “Battle of the Brians” (Brian Boitano and Brian Orser) in the men’s competition made us all proud to witness history in the making.  It was a great time for all Calgarians.  It was a great time for all Canadians!

It was wonderful to see Calgarian, Hayley Wickenheiser be the flag bearer for Team Canada in Sochi in 2014. All the flag bearers from their respective countries represent the talent of fine athletes around the world. The Games inspire youngsters to compete and become future Olympians.

It would be nice if everyone could just put aside all the controversy and political turmoil that always seems to follow the Games. Oh, that we could just focus on the world’s athletes with their stories of strength and endurance and fair play!  Olympics should be a time of peace and world unity.  I wonder if we, as Nations, could just put aside political and social differences for just a couple of weeks and come together in the spirit of peace to celebrate The Olympic Games and the athletes who compete in them?

That’s worth cheering for!

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