Walking a Thin Line

It’s almost impossible lately to stay “neutral” about anything. I am oftentimes caught between saying something that I know will offend, to not saying anything and still offending someone by my silence. I am walking a thin, tight rope that precariously wobbles me over a precipice. My balance is shaky at best, but in this climate of political and world upheaval, I hardly know what to say, do, or pray anymore.

I am Canadian. I am Albertan. Those two statements should not cause division but they do. I am nervous flying my Canadian flag in a province now that wants to secede from confederation. I understand the anger, the disappointment many of my neighbours and even members of my church family have towards a federal government that has for years seemed to ignore the needs and wishes of Albertans. For example: former Prime Minister Trudeau named all the provinces of Canada in his speech on Canada’s 150th Birthday celebrations, but forgot to name Alberta. It’s a slight, however minor, but it’s something that proud Albertans don’t forget. I didn’t.

I don’t want to go into all the ways that Albertans are holding serious grievances against the federal government in Ottawa. Let’s just say, they are justified. However, I find myself also staunchly defending working within a sovereign Canada. I’m a “why can’t we all just get along?” type gal. So, I’m hugging the line, and praying fervently for my province and my nation. I want to remain neutral. I won’t sign any petition to stay or to go. I want to fly both flags and not have to choose between the two.

This past month I so enjoyed watching the Milano-Cortina Winter Olympics. In a world filled with turmoil, the Olympics focus on human athleticism, where nations come together in peaceful competition. Certainly there are rivalries amongst the nations, but in the spirit of cooperation, we applaud every athlete whether they stand on the podium or not. I am looking forward to the Paralympics that applauds efforts by athletes who have faced daunting physical challenges to compete on a national stage. I love their stories, and admire their skills! I pray for all the athletes.

How I wish the Olympics were not politicized. Leading up to these events, there is already controversy. The nations at war demonstrating against the injustices on both sides. Here I am again on that thin line! When will the turmoil end? I hardly know what to think, let alone, to pray.

This past week, I have been swaying back and forth like a willow tree. Trying to stay rooted to one spot, but constantly bending and trying to stay neutral about a variety of issues, hearing both sides, but still wanting to remain objective. I’ve prayed for wisdom, I’ve prayed for discernment, I’ve prayed for words of comfort, compassion, and understanding to those who seem caught up in the daily events that seem so out of control. Prayer seems to be the only tangible response to a world gone mad.

A seemingly innocuous argument has surfaced as of yesterday when British Columbia announced they will remain on daylight savings time permanently. Alberta is considering the same thing. If you read the social media commentary today and the firestorm this has caused in B.C., one wonders about priorities people have. The U.S. and Israel are bombing Iran in an unprecedented onslaught, yet people here are upset we have to set our clocks back or ahead an hour.

March has already come in like a Lion. We usually use that phrase when we speak about the weather. If the weather is wintry, cold, and blustery on March 1st, the month is roaring it’s wrath like a lion, and the expectation is that the end of the month will end in calmer, balmy weather – going out like a lamb. This year, March is starting with unrest and division. Is it any wonder I want to put a spin on that proverb?

Using the Lion and Lamb analogy we come across the majestic figure of the Lion of Judah, representing Christ’s powerful nature. The lion signifies His strength and authority. When we think of the Lion of Judah, we are reminded that we serve a God who is not only gentle and compassionate, like a lamb, but also fierce and mighty. This duality provides us with sacred assurance. We can approach God with trust and reverence, knowing He is both our protector and our guide. The symbolism invites us to lean on Him during times of turmoil, letting His power comfort us while we seek His peace. This is hugging a secure line of knowing God is in perfect control in all circumstances and I can rest in perfect peace that He is both the Lion and the Lamb.

I find the balance I need rooted in the Word to navigate these worrisome, troubled times. My prayer life reflects that. I recently came across a wonderful model of prayer, posted by Amanda Hayhurst on Facebook:

@amandahayhurstwrites

I have been using this particular model when praying for family, friends, neighbours, church family, political leaders etc.

March may have come in like a Lion this month, but I am praying boldly according to His Will, and I do feel a peace that surpasses understanding as the Lamb of God leads me in all His Ways.

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Storing Up Treasures

Loyal blog readers, forgive my long absence from writing. I have been writing, just not on my Journey Thoughts blog. I have been journaling, writing short articles, and I’m getting ready to submit a few more stories to some anthologies in hopes to be published again in one (or more) of them.

As you know, we had my youngest daughter and family living with us since March of 2025. Having two toddlers in the house did not lend itself well to uninterrupted writing! I cherished each day with my grandbabies, and though life was hectic and noisy, at times chaotic, I still felt a sense of peace and purpose in each day. I miss them.

They moved out and into their new home the middle of January. Unfortunately, they moved out while I was battling a bout of shingles, so I couldn’t help with their move. It was an abrupt departure, since my having shingles also put the little ones at risk for chickenpox so there were no hugs “good-bye”. I came home from the hospital to an empty, quiet house which in some ways was harder to cope with than shingles. Thankfully, I am recovered, and I am now able to visit all my grands without fear of being contagious.

The last couple of weeks I have been “reclaiming” my house, so to speak. I do this every year in January after Christmas, but having another family under our roof for the last ten months, it’s readjusting to a new normal. I methodically go from room to room and sort, clean, organize, and purge. It is easier and easier each year to let go of those things I have held on to that have become mostly dust collectors. I am definitely not a minimalist, I’m way too sentimental to give up some of my collections, however, as I age I value time much more than stuff!

After my husband’s father passed away in 2012, and we packed up his home, I brought home chinaware, glassware and some nik naks that I just couldn’t bear having auctioned off in the estate sale. I did the same thing when my parents passed years before. Needless to say, it only added to my clutter at home. I never used the pieces and my dust collection was accumulating. I was so thankful when my son-in-law took a liking to the chinaware and started using it when they prepared meals here. I asked if they would like to have it in their new home and they were delighted to take it. That freed up cupboard space for me and thus began the great purge of 2026, divesting myself of even more stuff.

My kids always know when I get into this cleaning mode, I try to unload some of the “stuff” on them. My son refused to claim a box I had designated his. “Mom! I have four boys! What should I do with Grandma’s tea set?!”

He’s got a point.

I recently came across some humorous videos of adult children making fun of some of their parent’s collections. One in particular hit close to home when the adult child lamented her inheritance of a glass cabinet filled with Precious Moments figurines. The dozens of comments followed with people wondering what to do with collector dolls, Snow Baby figurines, and spoon collections.

I am guilty of collecting all of the above!

The best idea came from a woman whose grandmother had recently passed. At her memorial service, the family had her precious collections on tables, and after the service all attendee’s were encouraged to take a keepsake to remember her grandmother. Everyone left with a memento!

I love that idea!

After all, the earthly treasures I’ve accumulated over these many years will have no real importance or value in the great scheme of things. What will be valued is time well spent with family and friends. Endearing conversations and memory-making that flow out from a blessed life grounded in Christ.

I pray for nuggets of Godly wisdom I can pass on that will be remembered and cherished much more than any of my dust-collecting nik nacs.

Amen? Amen.

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Comforting Those Who Mourn at Christmas

I had never met the woman the Pastor was eulogizing, but I was there along with my husband and several friends from our church supporting her parents as they grieved the loss of their daughter. I never knew her, but from the memories shared by her parents, husband, daughter, and brother, I got a clear picture of a life well-lived and loved. Cancer cut her life short, but not her legacy.

The Pastor mentioned the fact that while we are in the midst of the Christmas season now, losing a loved one during this time of seasonal celebration is especially hard for a family. I nodded, remembering how we lost my sweet father-in-law just before Christmas in 2012. The funeral home that was handling the arrangements for my father-in-law had a basket of laminated bookmarks and reading the poem, I wept at the sentiment. I have kept the bookmark in my Bible ever since. I do not know the author of this poem (if my readers know, please share it with me so I can give appropriate credit), but I share it today here on Journey Thoughts. I pray it will comfort many during this season of grief and Yuletide.

May God comfort those who mourn.

My Christmas in Heaven 

I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below,
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular;
please wipe away that tear,
for I am spending Christmas
with Jesus this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear,
but the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring.
For it's beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me.
I see the pain inside your heart,
but I am not so far away.
We really aren't apart.
So, be happy for me dear ones,
You know I hold you dear,
and be glad I'm spending
Christmas with Jesus this year.

I send you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I send you each a memory of
my undying love!
After all, "Love" is the gift
more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important
in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other,
as my Father said to do,
for I can't count the blessings or love
He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I'm spending Christmas with Jesus this year.

-Author Unknown-
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