A Decorating Disorder

My good friends, Connie Cavanaugh and Kathy Howard have got the right idea: simplify Christmas!  I hear “gasps” world-wide as womencharliebrowntree race to their Christmas trees to give them a protective hug.  Believe me, I empathize with you!

“You’re not taking this away from me!” I hear from folks who have gone way overboard on ornaments, tinsel and garland.  It’s a seasonal disorder.  I have it too, it is probably inherited, and it requires me to overcompensate for lack of providing fun and frivolity for my family the rest of the year!  It’s a guilty pleasure!

It has grown to such epidemic proportions that rather than feeling the “Joy of the Season” I find myself dreading the annual decorating of the house and would rather climb up that craggy mountain with Mr. Grinch and just “Bah! Humbug!” the whole thing.

“Happy Holidays”?

“Bah!  Humbug!”

Christmas, believe it or not, used to be my favorite time of year.  I LOVED decorating and shopping…I was never much of a baker to begin with, but I made good attempts at Christmas even though I never baked during the rest of the year.  What I couldn’t prepare, I store-bought.  My kids didn’t seem to mind.  I had my shopping done for everyone on my list by October!  Now I tend to procrastinate…and procrastinate….

There was a time I couldn’t wait to put up my trees…yep, TREES!  One year I put up four of them!  I wouldn’t let my family help of course, because part of my disorder was that I believed no one could do it as well as I.  Certainly I allowed my children to assist when they were young, to give them that feeling of satisfaction when I said, “Good job!”, but later I could not stop myself from re-organizing and re-arranging ornaments they had put on the tree(s).  I hoped they wouldn’t notice.  They did, and eventually stopped helping as they got older.  As I got older, I got resentful they wouldn’t help.  I never thought that I had brought this behaviour on myself.

My husband had one task and one task only: put the lights on the tree.  I think he cheered quietly to himself when pre-lit trees were invented.

As the years went by my Christmas anxiety grew and grew because as I got older, it was more a chore to deck those halls and I was becoming less and less merry.  Anxiety I’ve learned is one of the major side-effects of this disorder.  Feeling weary by the demands I placed on myself, I knew I had to find a cure.  I had to stop the madness.  I had to down-size my decorating.

I also knew that it was not going to happen overnight.  No, I had to take it slowly, so it wouldn’t shock my family who had become accustomed to my seasonal disorder, and I knew I had a compulsive need to decorate.  To limit my decorating would be a shock to my system.  So, I thought of it like losing weight, no fad diets for me that might help drop weight quickly but can’t be maintained.  I knew the only sensible and long-lasting solution was to have a gradual reduction to help me and my family acclimatize to the new changes.

So I decided to put up one less tree.  No one commented or seemed to notice.  It was a small victory.  The following year, I only put up two trees!  Again, no hint of displeasure.  I was starting to wonder if my family were just uncommonly unobservant but I let it go.  The following year, I opted for pre-lit trees but I combined it with another change: the tree in the living room was no longer nine feet tall but now only seven feet tall.  I thought no one would notice.  I was wrong.

“Why’s the Christmas tree so short?”  The oldest said.

“Where are you going to put all your ornaments?”  Said the middle child.

“Hey, wait a minute…we’re missing some trees!” The youngest spouted.

The guilt was nearly overwhelming.  I had ruined Christmas.  I thought the kids would never forgive me.

They did.  Especially when they observed that their presents looked bigger under a smaller tree.  Go figure.

For many, many years now, I’ve been less and less focused on the decorating and more and more focused on the true REASON for the Season – Jesus Christ.

But I will admit my decorating habit is a hard one to break.

Last year I let the grandbabies help decorate the tree in the living room.  They could only reach the bottom branches.  My daughters challenged me to leave the tree as is.  I tried.  I REALLY tried…

Let’s just say I’m a work in progress.

 

 

 

 

 

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A New Page, A New Ministry

For a long time now, I’ve seen and shared countless pictures and postings on my blog and on Facebook that are meant to encourage others.  The majority of those postings have been Scripture verses.  It is obvious by the way that these images and verses have been shared so prolifically  that there are people who are hungry for the Word, and are in deep need of daily encouragement.

The other day one of my blog articles “25 Encouraging Verses for those facing Struggle” was shared on a VERY popular Facebook page: “Christian Quotes“.  Over 600 people have left comments so far; the article has been “liked” by over 24,000 people and shared over 9,000 times in just 48 hours on FB!  Interestingly this particular article, since it was first posted in January 2014, gets nearly 10,000 hits a day on Journey Thoughts and is one of the most popular posts on my site.  To me it confirms how much people are hurting and struggling in this world and how they so desperately crave encouragement from God’s Word.

Here are a few of the comments from the other day when that article was shared on FB:

this is the scripture God gave me close to 30 years now it has kept me going when I did not want to any more. Joshua 1:9

Yes Lord am one of those facing difficulties, I need you Lord, pls Lord help me.

The word of God is my whole armor that keep me strong everyday in facing struggles and trials in my life. thanks to the word of God mostly thanks to my living God

Just went through one of the worst weeks of my life. I found out who I can trust and who I can not. Surprisingly it was the opposite then I thought was the truth. Praise God He alone can be trusted 100% of ALL the time and in every situation!

Thank you Jesus for your love, mercy and strength. You are my shepherd when the wolves are circling.

Some thoughts as we enter the holiday season…It is important to remember that not everyone is surrounded by large wonderful families. Some of us have problems during the holidays and some of us are overcome with great sadness when we remember the loved ones who are not with us. And many people have no one to spend these times with and are besieged by loneliness. We all need caring, loving thoughts right now…”

“gives me strength to carry on though at times at the verge of despair”

Thank you for this today. Heading out for another round of MRIs. My God walks with me and I shall trust Him.

I too left a comment: Lynn DoveI have read all of the comments and am humbled by the response this article has generated. It is obvious that so many people are struggling and need encouragement from His Word. God never promised that believers would be without hurt or struggle, in fact the opposite is true. He said we would have trials, we would be persecuted, we would face hardship and heartache. But He did promise that He would ALWAYS be with us in every circumstance good or bad. (Matthew 28:20) I am thankful that His Word has encouraged so many of you!”

At our church we have been immersed in Missions Month.  Our Pastor has spoken for the last several weeks on the topic of discovering our mission field based on the teachings from Matthew 9:35-38.  “Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”

For quite a while now I have been wondering and praying how God would have me expand this ministry of encouraging others.  I have determined much of my “harvest field” is online so….

Yesterday I launched a new Facebook page: “Encouraging Bible Verses and Quotes” to partner with Journey Thoughts, to bring encouragement to others and to draw more and more people closer to the Lord.  The Scripture I am clinging to in this new endeavor is: “Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.” Ephesians 3:20-21

Would you join me on this new “mission field”?  I am asking readers of Journey Thoughts to help by “sharing” and “liking” the new page.  https://www.facebook.com/encouragingverses/?fref=nf

Blessings to you all!

 

 

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25 Encouraging Bible Verses About Heaven

HeavenIn 2003, I had the honour in my first year of seminary to take a class taught by T.W. Hunt.  Hunt was widely recognized in Christian circles as an authority on prayer and before his passing at the age of 85, in 2014, he had written and co-authored several wonderful books on prayer including “The Mind of Christ”, “Disciples Prayer Life” and the “Doctrine of Prayer”.  However, the book we studied together in that particular seminary class was one he co-authored with his daughter, Melana Hunt Monroe, “From Heaven’s View”, and it was that book that left a lasting impression on my life by living in this world with heaven in mind.

I read somewhere that 80% of people believe there is a “heaven” and most of those people believe that they will one day go to heaven when they die.  That may be the hope and wish of good people, but Scripture is very clear who will have access to heaven and who will be eternally separated from God and His dwelling place.

Read the following verses for encouragement and if you are wondering about your future citizenship in heaven, doubt no longer.  Heaven is only a prayer away:

Dear God in Heaven,

I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.
I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.
You said in Your Holy Word, Romans 10:9 that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.
Right now I confess Jesus as the Lord of my soul. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved.
Thank you Jesus for your unlimited grace which has saved me from my sins. I thank you Jesus that your grace never leads to license, but rather it always leads to repentance. Therefore Lord Jesus transform my life so that I may bring glory and honor to you alone and not to myself.
Thank you Jesus for dying for me and giving me eternal life.
Amen.

John 14:2-4  My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?  And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.  You know the way to the place where I am going.”

Luke 13:29-30  “People will come from east and west and north and south, and will take their places at the feast in the kingdom of God.  Indeed there are those who are last who will be first, and first who will be last.”

Isaiah 25:8–9  “…he will swallow up death forever.  The Sovereign Lord will wipe away the tears from all faces; he will remove his people’s disgrace from all the earth.  The Lord has spoken.   In that day they will say, “Surely this is our God; we trusted in him, and he saved us.  This is the Lord, we trusted in him; let us rejoice and be glad in his salvation.”

Revelation 22:1-5  “Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, as clear as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb down the middle of the great street of the city. On each side of the river stood the tree of life, bearing twelve crops of fruit, yielding its fruit every month. And the leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations. No longer will there be any curse. The throne of God and of the Lamb will be in the city, and his servants will serve him.  They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads. There will be no more night. They will not need the light of a lamp or the light of the sun, for the Lord God will give them light. And they will reign for ever and ever.”

Revelation 7:13-17  “Then one of the elders asked me, “These in white robes—who are they, and where did they come from?”   I answered, “Sir, you know.”  And he said, “These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Therefore, “they are before the throne of God and serve him day and night in his temple; and he who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence.  ‘Never again will they hunger; never again will they thirst.  The sun will not beat down on them, nor any scorching heat.  For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd; he will lead them to springs of living water.  And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.’”

Revelation 21:1-8  “Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,”for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband.  And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”  He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”  He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children.  But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”

Matthew 7:13-14  “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.  But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”

Matthew 5:17-20 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.”

Matthew 22: 1-14  “Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying:  “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son.  He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.  “Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’   “But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city.  “Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come.  So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’  So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.  “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes.  He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.   “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’  “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

Colossians 3:1-10  “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.  Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.  For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.  When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.  Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.  Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.  You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived.  But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.  Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.”

Matthew 18: 1-5  “At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”  He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.  Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.  And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.”

Matthew 18:10 -14  “See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven.  “What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off?  And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.  In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.

1 Corinthians 2:7-9  “No, we declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began.  None of the rulers of this age understood it, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory.  However, as it is written: “What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived”— the things God has prepared for those who love him—“

Philippians 1:21  “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.”

Philippians 3: 10-14  I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.  Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.  Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead,  I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 3:17-21  “Join together in following my example, brothers and sisters, and just as you have us as a model, keep your eyes on those who live as we do.  For, as I have often told you before and now tell you again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ.  Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is set on earthly things.  But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.”

John 3:1-8  “Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council.  He came to Jesus at night and said, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.”   Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.” “How can someone be born when they are old?” Nicodemus asked. “Surely they cannot enter a second time into their mother’s womb to be born!”   Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit.  Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit.  You should not be surprised at my saying, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”

John 3: 16-21  “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.  Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.  This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.   Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God.”

John 3:36  “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.”

John 17: 1-5  “After Jesus said this, he looked toward heaven and prayed: “Father, the hour has come. Glorify your Son, that your Son may glorify you.  For you granted him authority over all people that he might give eternal life to all those you have given him.  Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.  I have brought you glory on earth by finishing the work you gave me to do.  And now, Father, glorify me in your presence with the glory I had with you before the world began.”

Acts 4:12  “Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”

2 Peter 3:3-13  “Above all, you must understand that in the last days scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires.  They will say, “Where is this ‘coming’ he promised? Ever since our ancestors died, everything goes on as it has since the beginning of creation.”  But they deliberately forget that long ago by God’s word the heavens came into being and the earth was formed out of water and by water.  By these waters also the world of that time was deluged and destroyed.  By the same word the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, being kept for the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly.  But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day.  The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.  But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare.  Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming.  That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat.  But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells.

Hebrews 13:14  “For here we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come.”

1 Peter 1:3-5  “ Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time.”

Revelation 5:11-13  “Then I looked and heard the voice of many angels, numbering thousands upon thousands, and ten thousand times ten thousand. They encircled the throne and the living creatures and the elders.  In a loud voice they were saying: “Worthy is the Lamb, who was slain,to receive power and wealth and wisdom and strength  and honor and glory and praise!”  Then I heard every creature in heaven and on earth and under the earth and on the sea, and all that is in them, saying: “To him who sits on the throne and to the Lamb be praise and honor and glory and power, for ever and ever!”

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