Mood Kicking

Posted on September 26, 2012 by Lynn

This morning during my quiet time I was reading from Oswald Chambers “My Utmost For His Highest” and scanning through his book I stumbled upon this devotion and I couldn’t help but laugh (and squirm) at these profound words:  “There are certain things we must not pray about – moods, for instance. Moods never go by praying, moods go by kicking.” Oswald Chambers

He goes on to say that “A mood nearly always has its seat in the physical condition, not in the moral.  It is a continual effort not to listen to the moods which arise from a physical condition; never submit to them for a second.”

You know, when he’s right he’s right!

I’ll be honest, I’ve spent a lot of time fretting lately.  I know, I know…nothing good comes from worry.  I wish I could blame this “condition” on my parents…my mother was a natural worrier, but I know better than to say this is a genetic thing.  No.  It’s me.  And when I worry and fret my mood tends to spiral downwards too.

To say we’ve had a challenging several months, would be an understatement.  You know the expression: “when it rains, it pours”?…we’ve had a deluge of things happen to us…not a bucket load of woes all at once, but irritating little drips that keep dripping and dripping like an annoying faucet you can’t fix or turn off.  I won’t go into details, but I will say that I’ve been spending a lot of time praying that the Lord would reach down from heaven and like some cosmic plumber turn the faucet off and make the dripping stop!

I have also spent, what Oswald would say, a considerable amount of wasteful time feeling a little sorry for myself and praying about…yeah, you guessed it…my mood.  I suppose it is part of the human condition when things don’t go exactly according to plan, that you get a little down.  I tend to play the blame game, or talk about “what ifs”, or “let’s escape all this and go live in the smallest town in Saskatchewan where no one knows us and pump gas and eat licorice and read comic books all day”…I’ve been watching too many Corner Gas reruns…but you get my drift!

Oswald Chambers says, “We have to take ourselves by the scruff of the neck and shake ourselves, and we will find that we can do what we said we could not.”  That doesn’t sound a bit like my idea of trying to run away, or wasting time worrying myself into a frenzy.  On the contrary, it’s more like a kick in the pants.

I needed a good mood kicking this morning.  Thanks Oswald!

Do Not Worry

25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.  (Matthew 6:25-34)

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Purpose is More Important than Position

Posted on September 8, 2012 by Lynn

Well, the first week of school is over and I have survived.  Oh, there were definitely ups and downs learning a new computer (and computer program), not to mention figuring out 24 locks and locker combinations, learning the nuances of a quirky photocopier, decorating bulletin boards, doing lesson plans and making up seating plans etc. etc. etc.  I’ll say it again, students have NO IDEA how hard their teachers work BEFORE their school opens its doors to them!  Still, after a week of teaching, I find myself already excited to go back to class again next week.  There’s nothing like standing in front of a classroom full of Junior High students and see them get excited over a “just for fun” spelling bee!

I bought a $1.50 “trophy” at the dollar store and the kids passed the trophy around the room so that every student was a “champion” when they spelled a word correctly.  I don’t think any one of them will forget how to spell “potpourri” after about twenty attempts to get the correct spelling!

Today I marked my first Language Arts papers of the year.  A simple paragraph, “How did you experience God this summer?”  Teaching in a private Christian school, I can pose those kinds of questions but I was unprepared for some of their answers.  One girl experienced what she called a “Glory moment” when she witnessed a spectacular sunset, another student saw God heal a family member from cancer, another lost her precious grandfather over the summer, and still many others shared how camp experiences and mission trips touched their lives and impacted each of them profoundly.  I drew in my breath when I read how one young man experienced the harsh reality of seeing his parents separate and pleaded with God to get him through it and God did!  Even though his life consists of living in two houses now, going between two parents, God continues to heal this young man’s heart so he is not bitter.

I was reminded of the nine educational principles to live by this year: Purpose is More Important than Position.

Yes, I am these students’ teacher, for a little while at least, but I believe I am there for a much bigger purpose than to just teach them curriculum.  After reading their heart-stirring papers, I reacted at times with tears as they confided how they spent their summer.  God has a plan and a purpose for each of these young people, and for some reason, He has placed me in their lives for a few short weeks.  Yes, I will grade their efforts and chide them when they misbehave in class, but I hope that they will also find me to be approachable and ever-ready to listen to them, and laugh with them and be available to them when they just need someone to talk to.

Lord, may I be a teacher,

Both knowledgeable and kind;

help me to encourage each young and growing mind.

May my faith be evident in all I say and do

as I share the many lessons

that I have learned from You.

based on: Psalm 27:11 NIV

 

 

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God’s Sweetest Gifts

Posted on August 24, 2012 by Lynn

August 24th, 1995…I remember waking up early, the sun streaming through my bedroom window.  I was very pregnant, had been on bedrest through most of the third semester and that morning a little “tweak” told me that my baby was ready to meet the world!

“Honey, my water broke.”  I casually told my sleep-eyed husband.

“When?” he yawned.

“Oh, a couple of hours ago.”

Suddenly wide-eyed and panic-stricken, my husband bolted out of bed, grabbed a pair of brand new tube socks from a drawer and promptly put his foot straight through the right sock!  Hopping up and down while trying to pull the destroyed sock off, and scrambling to find another one, my husband raced around our bedroom throwing clothes around reprimanding me at the same time.  “Why didn’t you tell me sooner?…We need to get to the hospital?…Where are my socks??”

I calmly lay in the bed, serenely amused by my husband’s antics.  “No rush, Honey.  There’s plenty of time.”

Hours later, I gave birth to a beautiful, baby girl who took her first breath and immediately her lung collapsed.  I barely had time to see her tiny face, or touch her reddened cheek, before she was whisked away from me to the intensive care wing of the hospital.  My husband and I held hands and prayed.  Time stood still.

For us the clock only started ticking again when minutes later the doctors informed us that our daughter would be okay.  It was a scare nothing more.  Still, from that hour on, my husband and I couldn’t help but be even more watchful and protective of our “Baby Girl” than we may have been with our first two children.  It is that constant protective instinct that every parent has for their children, but heightened certainly when one child appears more vulnerable and sensitive to life’s ups and downs.

Carmen was our gift from God in our “Sarah and Abraham” years (as our friend Connie called it).  After the birth of my first daughter, followed by two traumatic miscarriages, the adoption of our son eight years after my first daughter was born; we thought our family was complete.  When I was told I was expecting again three years later, I laughed…just like Sarah did in the Bible.  For four months I was in a state of semi-denial that I was going to have a baby at all.  It wasn’t until I heard the baby’s heartbeat that I actually believed it to be true.  When I developed toxemia in the last trimester and placed on bedrest, nothing else mattered but doing whatever it took to deliver a healthy baby.

And then only minutes after she was born, we almost lost her…

At eighteen months, our dimpled little cherub crawled across the family room floor.  It had only taken an instant for me to turn to put a cup of hot chocolate down on a side table, grab a coaster and then turn again to see my baby grab the cup and dump the scalding liquid down on top of herself.  Instinct kicked in again as I had the presence of mind to rip off her onesy from her body, her skin already starting to bubble as I screamed for my husband to call the hospital.  The drive to the hospital was a blur, the moans of the baby coupled by my tears and anguish that only a parent experiences when that sickening feeling of guilt and remorse kicks in when you realize you should have been more watchful to protect your child from injury.  Doctors praised me for my quick thinking in removing her clothes or they would have burned to her body causing even more serious injury, but it was bad enough.  She had suffered painful second degree burns that required around the clock care for weeks after.

Miraculously, God allowed Carmen to heal with no scarring.  Occasionally the only time we even noticed she had suffered a burn was when she got a little aggravated as a toddler…a small red teardrop- shaped mark would appear just under her chin.  In time, that too faded away to nothing.

When Carmen was three, I took all three children in to have routine eye exams.  The eye doctor asked if he should check Carmen’s eyes.  I laughed, “If you think she’ll sit still long enough for you to try.”  My two oldest had perfect vision but the eye doctor frowned after Carmen’s eye exam.  “I’m going to send you to a specialist,” he said, “She is nearly blind in her right eye.  Have you ever noticed anything unusual in her behavior that would indicate a sight problem?”

“Nothing!” I said, “Just that at times she stands closer to the T.V. and we’re always telling her to move away from it.”  Thud.  It’s like the guilt knocked me over once again.

At five, she was playing on her Dad’s weight equipment with her brother.  I had told them both to stay away from the equipment but as children often do,…they both ignored me.  I heard a thump and a cry and my son ran to me and said Carmen had fallen.  She stood up slowly with large tears in her eyes and pouted.  I bent down to reprimand her for playing on the weight equipment when I told her not to.  Putting my hand on the back of her head, I noticed something sticky and wet and realized she had a serious gash.  Once again a trip to emergency and five stitches later, I wondered…I must be an unfit mother…how could I be so incapable of protecting this child?  I looked at her at play and couldn’t help but think…what next?

A few months later, “Hello, Dr.?”

“What’s Carmen done now?” The doctor asked.

“She’s stuck a bead up her nose.”

“Bring her in.”  He sighed.

Chicken pox followed, not once but twice…broken collar bone…not once but twice.  No matter how carefully I tried to protect and watch over that child, she was the most accident-prone of all three of my children combined.

Carmen is celebrating yet another birthday today.  She has grown into a beautiful young women but will always be my “Baby”.  Her Dad and I wonder where the time has gone.  As I remember her “birth” day and all the days since, I laugh at how many times I’ve tried to protect her and how many times I’ve failed.  As she has tried to test her “wings”, more and more as she got older, I have been more and more reluctant to let her “fly”.  She is a free spirit.  Every activity is an adventure for her.  She lives life to the fullest and to the extreme.

It has been hard to watch my “Baby” grow up.  There, I’ve said it.  With my mother’s heart beating nervously, I know I must allow her to soar on her own.

There is a beautiful word picture of us taking shelter under God’s wings.  (Psalm 57:1)  As a parent I pray God will protect and watch over my children every single day.  How many times have I wanted to just keep my children sheltered, protected from all harm, safely tucked under my arms only to fail time and time again because I am, after all, only human? I don’t have the ability to remain watchful and attentive 24/7.  My “wings” just don’t seem large enough to cradle them in all the time.  That’s when I take comfort knowing God is there…everyday…all the time, watching over my children.  They are ever in His watchful care and I trust Him wholeheartedly to love them and protect them when they are away from me.

Happy Birthday, sweet Carmen!  Momma loves you!

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