Gloryful

I may have invented a new word today: “Gloryful”.

Someone asked me how my Mother’s Day went and the only word that came to me was, “Gloryful!”

My 5 month old grandson was dedicated on Mother’s Day and it was the first time my entire family (all my children and grandchildren) were together in the same church for many years!  With my oldest daughter and son-in-law immersed in their church and my son and daughter-in-law attending a different church from us as well, it was just a blessing to be all together in worship again.  Then of course, we were all there to support my son and daughter-in-love as they dedicated themselves to raising up their son to love the Lord and live for Him.  When my son prayed over my grandson, tears welled up in my eyes, praising God for His Loving Kindness to them and to our family.  It was GLORYFUL!

When we all gathered later for a BBQ dinner, the grandchildren the centre of attention and making their presence felt with their noise and laughter, I just soaked up the blessing of children from youngest to oldest.  Truly the Dove family nest is active and will continue to grow in the years ahead.  How blessed are we?

There are days that I mark as just about perfect, and Mother’s Day 2017 was one such day.  It was Gloryful!

The day was centred around God’s goodness, His provision and His guidance as we continue to dedicate our lives in raising our children and grandchildren “in the way they should go”.  As parents and grandparents we know all too well that we do not have all the answers and we make mistakes.  However, we have the assurance that God, THE perfect parent, will help us in our highs and lows, and in our successes and our failures as parents.  I can’t imagine embarking on parenthood without Him!  Hearing our son accept the challenge of parenthood, and enlisting God to help them as they raise their precocious baby boy gave me such peace.  If God is for them, who can be against them?

Will the days, months and years ahead be easy?  No.

Will they have challenges and make mistakes?  Yes.

Will God ever leave them or forsake them?  Never.

I hope they cling to the promises of God when discouragement and weariness drain them as parents.  If they continue to lean on God throughout this grand adventure that is parenthood, they too will experience God in ways that can only be described as “Gloryful!”

 

 

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To My Friend

 I wrote this years ago when I was a young Mom, it is still a fitting poem for busy moms, friends, and grandmothers too!

Encouragement to My Friend!

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Poem by: Lynn Dove

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What Makes A House A Home?

I apologize for the long absence from the blogosphere.  These many weeks my husband and I have been on Vancouver Island wrapping up his Dad’s estate, the last task, selling the family home and having an estate sale there.  This has been a labour of love for my husband, a long, laborious task that has taken over four years to complete.  In that time, he has followed, to the letter, every last wish his father requested of him.  To say these last few months, and particularly the last few weeks has been taxing in strength and emotional stress would be understating the obvious.  Saying “good-bye” to the family home that he and his brother and sister had grown up in, a home his father and mother had built and lived in since the early 60’s, brought back years and years of precious memories for him.  As he said repeatedly, “It’s just a house, it’s the people who live in it that make it a home.”

It was particularly hard on my husband’s stepmother who moved in with her daughter in Victoria this past Christmas.  She had lived in that house in Comox for over 25 years, and when failing health forced her to move away from it, she left a piece of her heart there but she told me, “It’s just a house, it’s the time I spent with my husband there that I will miss.  I will always miss him.”

During the estate sale, we actually met the new owners of the house, a Christian couple (PTL!!), who are excited to begin their new life there.  My husband and I nearly wept with delight to know Christ followers will continue to live in that house!  So, as we carted out the last box and toured each empty room together we at last stopped in the kitchen and hugged.  It had been an intense week leading up to this moment.  So much packing and cleaning and seeing household furniture and “stuff” go to new families who we hoped would care for and appreciate the items for years to come.   The house had never been empty before and it was so odd to hear our voices echo within the rooms.  Then we bowed our heads and prayed…not for the house…but for the people who would be living there next.

What makes a house a home?  The people in it.

As a final act of respect to his dad, we drove from the house so my husband could visit the gravesites of his parents.  As tears rolled down my cheeks, he stood silently over their final resting place for a few minutes, and said to me, “I know they’re not there, they’re with God, but still this was something I had to do.”

I couldn’t help but imagine Dad at that moment standing beside his son and patting him on the back for a job well done!

 

 

 

 

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