I will confess, I am not a fan of diets. Personally, I don’t think most of those “fad” diets work. As my husband says time and time again, the only sure way to lose weight is to “eat less, 
and do more”. He continues to be one of the wisest men I know! That said, I’ve decided that I’ve got to try to shed a few pounds. Now that I’m fifty-something, losing weight has more to do with health, than getting into a bikini. I believe in miracles, sure…but me and bikinis – that ain’t never gonna happen 🙂 My kids are certainly breathing a sigh of relief!
The thing is, I’d just like to shed a few pounds so that I could get into SOME kind of a bathing suit…
I was digging through some old files the other day and came across a little article that describes the ordeal I face every summer…the quest for a new bathing suit.
“I have just been through the annual pilgrimage of torture and humiliation known as buying a bathing costume. When I was a child, the bathing costume for a woman with a mature figure was designed for a woman with a mature figure – boned, trussed and reinforced, not so much sewn as engineered. They were built to hold back and uplift, and they did a good job.
Today’s stretch fabrics are designed for the prepubescent girl with a figure chipped from marble. The mature woman has a choice – she can either front up at the maternity department and try on a floral costume with a skirt, coming away looking like a hippopotamus who escaped from Disney’s Fantasia- or she can wander around every run-of –the mill department store trying to make a sensible choice from what amounts to a designer display of fluorescent rubber bands.
What choice did I have? I wandered around, made my sensible choice and entered the chamber of horrors known as the fitting room. The first thing I noticed was the extraordinary tensile strength of the stretch material. The Lycra used in bathing costumes was developed, I believe, by NASA to launch small rockets from a slingshot, which give the added bonus that if you manage to actually lever yourself into one, you are protected from shark attacks. The reason for this is that any shark taking a swipe at your passing midriff would immediately suffer whiplash.
I fought my way into the bathing suit, but as I twanged the shoulder strap in place, I gasped in horror – my bosom had disappeared! Eventually I found one bosom cowering under my left armpit. It took a while to find the other. At last, I located it flattened beside my seventh rib.
The problem is that modern bathing suits have no bra cups. The mature woman is meant to wear her bosom spread across her chest like a speed bump. I realigned by speed bump and lurched toward the mirror to take a full-view assessment. The bathing suit fit all right, but unfortunately, it only fit those bits of me willing to stay inside it. The rest of me oozed out rebelliously from top, bottom, and sides. I looked like a lump of play-dough wearing undersized cling wrap.
As I tried to work out where all those extra bits had come from the prepubescent sales girl popped her head through the curtains, “Oh, there you are!” she said, admiring the bathing suit. I replied, “Yeah, that’s me all over!” and asked what else she had to show me. I tried on a cream crinkled one that made me look like a lump of masking tape, and a floral piece which gave the appearance of an oversized napkin in a serviette ring. I struggled into a pair of leopard skin bathers with ragged frill and came out looking like Tarzan’s Jane – pregnant with triplets and having a rough day. I tried on a black number with a midriff and looked like a jellyfish in mourning. I tried on a bright pink high-cut leg one and I thought I would have to wax my eyebrows to wear it.
Finally I found a costume that fit…a two-piece affair with shorts-style bottom and a halter top. It was cheap, comfortable, and bulge-friendly. So, I bought it. When I got home, I read the label which said, “Material may become transparent in water.” I’m determined to wear it anyway. I’ll just have to learn to do the breaststroke in the sand.”
Can any of you ladies relate to this story?
So THIS summer, I’m bound and determined to shed a few pounds so I can get into a bathing suit that doesn’t have me look like a tube of toothpaste squeezed in the middle, or requires that I sit out in public under a “whale on the beach” sign.
I’ll keep you informed friends, how well I’m doing…
Lynn Dove's Journey Thoughts 