How Do We Fit Into God’s Story?

As we end 2012 and look expectantly ahead to 2013, I must take time to reflect and prepare.  Yes, it’s been a tough year.  We have lost some loved ones recently and my heart continues to grieve for those dear friends and family members whom we have lost this past year.

On December 19, my dear father-in-law, Charles Dixon Dove, passed away at the age of 91 years!  He leaves behind a legacy of faith for his children, grand-children, and great-grandchildren.  He will be greatly missed by his wife, Etta and all the members of the Dove and Keating Families.   It is so hard to say good-bye, but we rejoice in knowing that there willDSC01092 be a great reunion someday with him and other loved ones in heaven.

I take comfort knowing that God is always in control.  Joy WILL come in the morning.  It’s hard to understand, but it’s true.  For us as a family, along with grieving our personal losses of precious friends and family, we’ve had another “roller-coaster” year, with other ups and downs in our lives that have left us with motion-sickness at times.  Again, I take comfort that even with all the twists and turns, God is STILL in control.

I have been reminded time and time again that we are part of God’s ultimate Story.  We actually have a chapter written especially for us and about us.  Oh, it’s not complete yet for us still living in this world…it’s a work in progress and as every writer knows, there are times for revisions, editing and occasionally times to just delete and start over.  That’s the way it should be.  God writes our story.  I don’t know exactly how the story will unfold in the day-day telling; God is very good at keeping us in suspense, but He gives little clues along the way, to keep the plot interesting.  He is a Master-Storyteller after all!

I love how God builds our character along the way.  Writers know how important it is to a story to have good character development.  God knows that.  Even a flawed character like me  can grow and change appropriately to fit into God’s story line, and to be used for His glorious purposes if I am willing to be shaped into the character God can use.  It’s an adventure!

Dad Dove knew that well.  He lived a life that modeled his love and faith everyday to his family and friends.  He lived knowing that his life here on earth was just a small prologue to be added one day to the Eternal Book of Life.  The prologue is now finished for Dad and I feel confident that the closing line to that chapter now reads: “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

 

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Leaving Behind a Legacy of Love

Arline would have turned forty-five years old today, unfortunately a tragic car accident took her life on December 10th.  For those of us who knew Arline, we will miss her infectious giggle and her warm-hearted concern for all those around her.  She was my husband’s secretary at our consulting company for close to thirteen years and every time I called the office, Arline’s sweet voice and giggle greeted me.  Every Christmas, knowing that I had an aversion to Christmas baking…not eating it, just baking it…Arline always sent my husband home with a huge tray filled with her Christmas squares and cookies.  I told her she was my “Christmas Angel”.  She would giggle and glow with pleasure that she haArline Savaged made me smile.  Her greatest joy was to give to others.  She gave of her time, talent and personal resources to anyone who needed help or just needed a smile.  That was her way.

She was a single Mom who loved her two children, family, and friends without reserve.  That was also her way.

She attended a Franklin Graham crusade with my husband and I in Calgary and gave her heart to Jesus there.  Her faith, and her tender heart for the “poor in spirit” gave her even more compassion for others and to selflessly give of time and talents to anyone who needed it.

Weeks leading up to her forty-fifth birthday, she did not want presents herself…no…she wanted to give $10.00 Tim Horton gift cards to all the people who go to the Drop In Centre in Calgary, a place that provides a warm meal, and a place to sleep for Calgary’s poor and homeless.  When she was told that over five hundred people use the Drop In Centre regularly, Arline knew that as a single Mom she just did not have the resources herself to buy gift cards for all the residents.  She decided instead to raise money on her own to get gift cards at least for the senior residents, about two hundred in all.  Her plan was to go to the Drop In Centre on her birthday and hand out the gift cards.

After the tragic traffic accident that took Arline’s life on December 10th, her son and daughter were told by responders who attended the scene that Tim Horton cards were scattered everywhere inside the car.  It was then that Tyler and Samantha (Arline’s young adult children) decided that they would fulfill their mother’s birthday wish.  Using social media and news and radio exposure to help them, they appealed to family and friends that in lieu of flowers bring Tim Horton Gift cards to her memorial service or contribute monies to the RBC in a trust fund set up to collect money for the Drop In Centre in her memory.

A local radio station took up the cause and auctioned off a Christmas Sweater with all proceeds going towards the Drop In Centre “Pay it Forward for Arline Savage”.  When I heard of the campaign I wept with joy.  At the memorial service that we attended on the 17th, a donut box was filled to overflowing with Tim Horton gift cards, given by the hundreds of friends and family that came to celebrate Arline’s life.

Yesterday her children had the privilege to hand out hundreds and hundreds of gift cards to all the residents at the Drop In Centre…in fact, they got twice the number of gift cards they had thought to get, so they are going back to the Drop In Centre again after Christmas to give away the other cards!   A final and fitting way to honour their mother’s birthday wish and to spread some Christmas Joy to others.  Happy Birthday, Arline!  I’ll bet you’re giggling all the way from heaven!

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And A Little Child Shall Lead Them

Remembering today 20 sweet angels who have spent the past week with Jesus.

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